It was Tuesday when I decided not to take the tomorrow's class. Wednesday was planned as we need to go to taiji's place for some poojan. We reached on time. It was nice but singers were singing aloud. So, I decide to came out for a while. Then I realized that I am feeling a bit hungry and craving for chocolate as well(no wonders). I bought lays and dairymilk.
After some time Dinner served and it was too yummy that I ate more that my appetite. We were leaving the place and told the next day's plan to everyone that I'll be back after the college and D & J will join us at night. Everyone criticized this idea, but i took stand for what I wanted to do(learned from R & A, thanks a ton to them).
I took the class. I was half an hour late for it but thats another part of the story. The day of college almost got over when I was waiting outside the metro station for P. He came back with some friends. We traveled together to kashmiri gate and there he took leave. He called me later and apologized for his leave. For some time we had a good conversation. He had a lot of stuff in his mind reagarding some personal issues. I simply like it when he shares it with me. As my turn came to speak, I was so nervous and tensed then I realized that a lot is going within me. I was bitterly upset. I broke up into tears. I shared too. We end our conversation on nice notes.
It was "Mehndi's rasm". The bride was engaged with her mehndi and was continuously asking everyone to start the dance. We played the music, we danced, crackers were on and we enjoyed! I had some food then had mehndi and missed the chance to get fed by someone.... awwww!!
We met all of those who we know in wedding ceremony. I met my sisters then. Everyone of them was beautifully dressed and bride was looking just like a doll(best of best wishes are with u sister). I met my nieces and nephews, love them so much.
I like all this family stuff like functions, weddings, birthdays, poojans. It brings nothing but togetherness, happiness, a little bit of care, an opportunity to get in touch with everyone once again, to see smiles everywhere, to grab some blessings & love.
It was a very well organised wedding countable people, delicious food and music which can make you rock the floor down. It was all so yum when it came to snacks, drinks, shakes, salads, meals & deserts. Food was really appreciable and was the best part.
Everyone took leave after the bid farewell of bride with her prince charming.
(May she lives happily forever)
It happened many times during this special ceremony when some relatives spoke about my life and my marriage. I wonder do they really think about me? Do they care? Did they ever thought about my perspective or my so much lovely dreams? Did they ever thought that my dreams are everything and marriage stands nowhere till I find myself fixed in my life?
Leaving behind those narrow minds I went to my bed and took no time to get into sound sleep.
We all will always remember these three hectic days forever. May the bride & groom be eternally blessed. . . :):)
nice yaar.....like ur blog.......
ReplyDeleteGood to read after a long time from ur end i liked the post and especially the part whr ur marriage is discussed I stand by u as a friend and first we would like to see u 'somewher' then 'there'
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@veera~ thanks swthrt:)
ReplyDelete@adi~ thanks for like and ur support:)
Thanks to both of u:):)
expressing your feelings in words is the most difficult job..
ReplyDeleteand you have done that so nicely yaar..
you always say that we write so nicely..
this is i call, What writing is all about..
you and we are the same dear..
keep it up.
would love to read more of your writing
thanks he-man........thanks u for ur support!
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